Rainbow baby- when did your doctor see you?

Katie

I am wondering when your doctor let you come in to check and make sure everything was going okay? I lost a baby at 11 1/2 weeks my last pregnancy (had been spotting off and on) and I am 5w5d pregnant again. My doctor doesn’t have me coming in until I’m almost 9 weeks. I’ve mentioned concerns but still, no change in my appointment. Friends and family of mine have all been seen at 6 weeks after a loss just to assure them baby was okay. I leave next week for a trip and if my pregnancy wasn’t progressing okay I would cancel it- I do not want to miscarry in a hotel room.

I have an appointment on Monday with a new doctor who wanted me in at 6 1/2 weeks- Why is a new doc who has never seen me willing to take me early but not my own? I’m slightly disappointed.

What’s everyone else’s experience after a loss, did your doc take you early?