My wife and I are separated, but she said she’d always be here for me. Well, today is the “anniversary” of my sisters death. She was 12 when she passed, she’d be 32 this year. It’s still not easy, last night my kids and I couldn’t sleep, as if they knew. I texted my wife this morning for support and she said she was sleeping, and basically told me to fuck off even after telling her what today was. Then said I was pushing her away when she was “trying to be here for me”. Asked me what I wanted from her, I asked her if she could watch the kids while I do laundry it would help a lot instead of lugging them down the stairs. She basically said no. She was just “trying to be here for me”. Ugh 😭