Help me feel better

So, the twins are nearly 5 months. They both are totally different. Prince(BB) is spoiled rotten and requires more attention. While Nyla(BG) hardly ever cry’s is not if sick or taking to long to feed. My problem is we’re always holding him😩because he cry’s the most, or rather, ALWAYS and she just be left in her swing or whatever. I’m starting to feel like we’re neglecting her emotional needs. I mean I’m sure she wants to be held all the time too😔 don’t get me wrong we spend time with her I JUST DK!! I’m silently crying for extra arms and hands!!!! Twin mamas HELP ME. Lately I’ve been trying to break him from being so spoiled but its hard!