Baby shower stressed 🤦🏽‍♀️

lexi 💋 • Muva to my angel Aiden 👼🏽🙏🏽 and my sweet babygirl A'Laya 🧸💗 A.K 🤞🏽💋

As being a first time mom I don’t know how this works as for a baby shower ... my mother is doing the baby shower for me but she is telling me to start buying stuff? I thought the mom was supposed to take car of everything? Correct me if I’m wrong