Did I mess myself up?

Question

Hello ladies,
I’ve been single forever and now have a wonderful boyfriend. Which means I’m learning how to get off with a partner. Trouble is, I’m so used to masturbating with my trusty vibrator I can’t get off with my boyfriend. I get all kinds of worked up being with him but I just can’t orgasm. Any suggestions? 
I also haven’t been able to bring myself to tell him that I haven’t gotten off any of the times we’ve been together.

Answer

Stop using your vibrator for a bit if you're still using it.  Try not to focus on getting off so much when you're having sex.

Answer

Lol I use my vibe all the time. I was worried I might be to use to it and messing with my sensitivity butttt when I get on top of him BOOM! Better than my vibe lol ..

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Stop using your vibrator and stop faking it. Your man isn’t some piece of plastic that’s gonna be going until the batteries run out.  You’re not helping by allowing him to think you had an orgasm, so stop deceiving him and tell him what’s up. Tell him what you need.

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You could also try using your vibrator with your partner, if he’d be open to it. Sex is supposed to be fun. Have fun. Once your mental focus is off “oh crap I need the vibrator” you might find it’s way easier.

Did I mess myself up?

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