So about 4 months ago me fiancé and I decided that with us being a little older that it probably was wiser to prevent conception! He’s 55, I am 42 not that conceiving would be difficult, but being older, more content, and SELFISH as hell that bringing a child into the world wouldn’t allow us to do things we weren’t able to do in our first marriage. Plus with 5 children (triplets, and my two) are all over the age of 19 soooooooooooo, no we’re good no need to start down that path again. My problem is that since starting bc my periods are so random and omg all over the place! Last month hell I had 2 😥 and today little miss bitch decided to start up right after a very intense session of lovemaking (I’m all in church looking at him like steak) but nope not today! Not saying that we can’t or that he wouldn’t 😝 but you all know how that first day feels. Anyways sorry tmi tmi I know. But now I’m starting to question if starting bc was a decision especially at my age! So here I am thinking maybe we should look into male sterilization 🤔 he mentioned it but I don’t know if doing something so indefinite AND invasive is an option! So too all my ladies who have a SO who’s been through the process what are some of the pros and cons of having your guy nipped 😂