I thought I was in a dream like fairy tale. Until the day I told my boyfriend that I am pregnant. We have been together for 3.5 years. He has 5 kids and is 54. He claims he cannot emotionally handle another child. I have just turned 30 and dreamed of more. The 5 children are with his ex, his ex was fixed not to have any more kids. I’ve told him several times I want more children in the future ( I have one 9 year old) We both know we are soulmates, he loves me greatly. But he said because I have “ decided “ to keep the baby, ( he will not be able to emotionally handle this newborn) so he has no choice but to leave me. Now here I am 4 months pregnant. I don’t know what to do. I just told him I’m pregnant three weeks ago. Do you guys think he needs time to come around if he does really love me? Should I give him time? I love him so dearly. I told him we could do this and we will get through this, because having a child with me is completely different then having his kids with his ex. This is a completely different love, it’s soulmate love. I love my new belly and new baby growing inside, but the more it grows the more I cry, i feel all alone and sad. How could he just LEAVE a good person like me, if he loved me so much. And trust me ( I see it in his eyes) how much he really loves me

J.