My s.o doesn't help to much when it comes to our son. Because he works and I stay home I try not to make a big deal out of it..but watching over a toddler and being pregnant is so tiring and fustrating I just wish he'd help more. Yet he doesn't. He sticks himself in the room and is on the video game the rest of the evening. Then I'm up with our son at 4 am and I just don't think it's fair. I'm growing so tired of him thinking it's just the womans job to raise a kid and I have no breaks or time to myself. I've already talked to him and nothing seems to be working. I'm really trying to give him a chance to prove he can be more helpful but so far he's just proven to be completely selfish. I don't want to do something drastic like leave him, especially because we're engaged but I'm just feeling so fed up.