I really wish my boyfriend would put in more effort to making me feel good during sex. Most of the times that we had sex, he usually finshes first and then I would finish myself solo while he rests or showers. It honestly doesn't feel very intimate and meaningful. He doesn't eat me much, and puts in some effort in foreplay, most of the time I have to ask for foreplay to get any. I love him a lot, but I feel like he is a selfish lover during sex. He doesn't seem to have a lot of patience in doing some things to make me feel good as well. I talked to him several times about it, he has always said he'll work on it, but he either does something only once or for a short amount of time (usually upon me asking). I mean our relationship is good and all, it's just the sex part that's not very satisfying. He makes me feel good during sex, but that's usually for him to finish, not me. I feel bad whenever I ask him to do specific things when he's clearly exhausted after cumming, that's why I finish solo.

Idk, maybe it's bc we don't have a lot of opportunities to have sex where he can explore me more. But, the fact that I have been putting in effort to find ways to pleasure him, I think that it's achievable even with our restrictions. I'm still trying to explore myself, but I feel sad that it's a solo journey 🙁