About 6 months ago, my friend asked me to be her surrogate. I didn’t want to disappoint her and so I said “yes”. I thought she was in a good place at the time. Well she’s not... her baby’s father abuses her and she still wants him to be the father of their second baby. Technically it would be my egg. Cause she doesn’t have tubes or ovaries. I would have to sign my rights over to a man I don’t trust. I just can’t do that. How can I tell her nicely I changed my mind? Tbh I didn’t want to do it in the first place... she put me on the spot..

Oh and she doesn’t have a place to live. Then she did.

I don’t want to judge but a baby isn’t a joke.