And haven’t told a single person in my family. I never announced to anyone or on social media. I’m really not sure how to even tell her since it’s been so long. Yes, I am taking prenatals and baby is very healthy. She is measuring around 2.5 lbs now. My bump is still easy to hide with the right clothing so she honestly has no idea. My sister in law is being induced tomorrow so she’s been pretty worked up over that but this entire situation is giving me the worst anxiety, especially since the baby’s father is not involved. Honestly just considering surprising her with a baby at this point lmao 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edit: I have thought about telling her months ago, but the anxiety stops me every time. My mother has never been supportive. Every time I have ever tried to talk to her she grunts at me, like if I say hi or anything, and just gives me a dirty look. So I just never talk to her about anything personal. She wishes me dead all the time or wishes I was never born. So I figured I’d rather just save myself the stress and not say anything. Because if I did she would just judge me for not being married (she is very religious, and my “BF” of 3.5 years tried to force me into an abortion at 10 weeks and ended up cheating on me), and yell at me saying I’m irresponsible and ask how I’m going to afford everything, even though I’ve already worked my ass off to get a stroller, crib, pack n play, tons of clothes, and so many other things all by myself 😔

Also I live in the northeast and it is extremely cold here so I just wear a jacket or a big sweater and you would never be able to tell lol