Husband

Ladies I need your help my husband and I have been having issues for years and he always gas lights me now we are getting into territory that im not sure I want to come back from I had a total hip replacement surgery 1-16 and he is so unhelpful he doesn't help with our 3 kids 5,2 and 4 months today I complained he stayed out with his single friends at the bar until 1 am so he took the kids and didn't get me any food today I haven't eaten since yesterday at 6pm and i can't walk downstairs and get it myself and he refuses to do anything to help me because I'm a bitch. I'm taking medication that needs to be taken with food and threw up after I took it because of no food and I am not good at taking medication. I feel like this is the end of my marriage when I tried to talk to him he told me to shut the hell up already.