So lately I’ve had a few thoughts on my mind. 1) can I dictate who is in the room if I have a vaginal delivery? 2) if I have a c section can I make the choice for no one but my doctor and SO to see the baby until I get the chance to bond with her? Like no one is allowed to see the baby until I get the chance to hold her kind of thing? It may sound selfish but I do not want anyone but my SO and doctors to see my baby until I get to hold her. Am I allowed to request that? Like will the hospital laugh at me and tell me no? I just want bonding time with my daughter before everyone is grabbing her away from me.