Unwanted belly touching
My mom feels like she has the right to touch my baby bump. I don’t like being touched by her it just makes me feel uncomfortable idk why & now she knows you can feel his kicks from the outside so every time we talk it’s “is he up?” “Let me feel your bump” “come home so I can see and feel him” for the most part my baby is still bellow my belly button which is too close to my vagina to me for anyone to be touching besides my bf. It just feels too intimate of a place to touch if that makes sense. she’ll literally make me lift up my shirt so she can see my bump. If I refuse she starts looking all sad & acts closed off like I told her to go fuck herself or something 🙄 I just feel like she does that to guilt trip me. I’m still a person, just because I have a baby inside me does not mean I want to be touched. I get that it’s an exciting time for everyone but no one has the right to touch me or try to make me feel bad for not wanting to be touched. I’ve been not welcoming of her touches since I was in 6th grade & she knows it, she’ll have to force me to hug her or wait till I’m in a vulnerable state to try to get me to hug her, since I would already be in my feelings too much to say no. If she puts her hand on my arm I’m quick to wipe wherever she touched & she’s sees this. We’ve talked about it before & she knows I just do not like being touched so I don’t understand why she keeps trying to force herself on me. I feel disgusted..
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