Ok its just a rant .... im ranting by myself

I dont care if you want to justify their actions im not amused by this one bit.

BackStory: My guy cousin and i have been close since we were little, he flunked 3rd grade and ended up being in the same class as me. We had the same friends in school. We graduate together. We chill together. Hes my cousin of course we see each other alot. -_-

Anyways he has a "Wife" who beats him up, calls the cops on him, kicks him out the house . You name it she does it. He always cried to me for help. So okay , i help him. Recently he got her pregnant again ( he already has a baby from her , his first and my first love each other of course they are cousins too )Ok cool. I couldn't stand by him and be ok with that because im always stuck in the middle of his bs and hers.

I recently had a baby and i used a name that was dear to my heart because it was my Grandmothers ( who is in no relationship to my cousin . She is my dads mom and my cousin in from my moms side. Not related whats so ever) who had just recently passed away( everyone knows this) I wanted to give my second daughter her name and thats EXACTLY what i did. This was in 2018 of January.

Ok fast forward to the beginning of this year 2019.

Remember i told you he got her pregnant again. She just had the baby. Not only did she pick to have her baby born on my daughters birthday, yes i said picked. THEY BOTH ( my cousin and his wife) CHOSE TO USE THE SAME NAME AS MY DAUGHTER . ( which like i said was my grandmothers name.)

Yes i am upset . I am annoyed. I want to go off on him, but he is in his own world . He is happy right now and im not one to pop bubbles.

Im just lost for words and i know its not the baby's fault, but come on why do that to my daughter?

Did he think that my daughter would be taking the shine away from his?

They took ny daughters brithday. They could At least let my child have her name to herself.