Daughter will not use a spoon or fork

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My daughter’s favorite toys to play with and chew on are her toy utensils. However if I try to feed her with a regular spoon or fork she screams and knocks the food out of my hand. I tried toddler spoons to see if maybe her being able to do it herself would encourage her to try on her own. But as soon as the metal hits her mouth the spoon is chucked across the room. I can’t find any soft spoons big enough for her, baby spoons agitate her and she can’t scoop anything up. I thought about the disposable plastic ones but she snapped it in half 🙄. Anyone have a spoon that their little one can grip and is not pure metal for the actual part that goes in their mouth?