I was talking to his sister about how she can't make the cake for the gender reveal, because I DO NOT WANT NO FAMILY TO KNOW. Plus we have ideas we want to do already for the gender reveal which has nothing to do with a cake. And she asked why I'm having it up here where we live (3+ hours away from hometown) when all HER family will want to be involved. Which I understand I do, but this is my baby. I don't want to TRAVEL 20+ weeks pregnant just to have a reveal and drive back the same day most likely . So if they want to be involved they can COME UP HERE. And she's talking about how my friend Rachel can fix it up the stuff for gender reveal so no family will know than we take it down where her family is. Which I feel like that is very disrespectful and DOING WAY TO MUCH. Why can't it just be fucking simple like my family and agree to what I WANT AND WHAT I THINK IS BEST AND LET ME DO IT THAT WAY! Like this IS ONLY THE BEGINNING TOO.

IF THEY WANT TO INVOLVED THEY CAN TRAVEL.

Am I a bad person for doing that???