I’m 22 so I know I’m an adult and all. But am I the only one who has a parent that makes me feel like I’m less than dirt? I have been there for my mom from the time she was raped a year ago, to her abandoning my dad and my 9 year old sister in Chicago in May and then cheating on my dad and being a pure alcoholic and now she’s still with this guy and with him she has almost died 3 times but she prioritizes him over anyone even if I try to tell her what he’s done he’s always #1. She said some pretty terrible things and said I make her want to kill herself and I just want to cry so so much. I’m a wife and a mom of a 3 year old ttc #2 and I’m just unbelievably stressed. We have been ttc #2 since 11/2017 and 2 of my drs and my therapist has said I need to put some space between my mom and I. To distress to make the process of conceiving a little easier. I have but she is bipolar and one day I think its ok and then the next she’s tearing me to shreds. My parents just finalized divorce yesterday and my mom is treating me like I’m my dad. She said to my dad she was going to hurt herself and my dad called me to go make sure she was ok and she lost it on me and called me everything she could including a terrible mom and I’m just literally stuck.