I'm 37 + 2 and I have no idea at all where I am at. I keep seeing all these posts from other Feb moms with 3cm dialated, 40 % effaced, baby is at station 0.

I have no idea about my own stats and its driving me nuts. I know dilation and effacement basically have no bearing on when you will go into labor, but I still want to know.

I thought I would get checked at my 37 week apt, but nope.... I mentioned I thought I was dialating and they didn't even care.

I had to go to OB Screening tonight for abdominal pain, turns out I have an abdominal hernia.

They monitored baby and he is great and I am having irregular contractions that I can barely feel. I mentioned I lost a smidge of my plug and have been leaking a bit, probably discharge. But nope they still didnt check.

I know i probably could have asked, but it didnt feel right seeing as I was there for pain and not contractions.

I just want my little man to be in my arms 💚

Anyone else in the same boat?