Soo I been dating my now fiancé since August 2018. We have had arguments about trust, he’s used my thump print to get in my phone while I was sleeping(I’m a heavy sleeper) and he didn’t find nothing.. now he protects his phone like his life depends on it. If he takes out the trash, he has his phone on him, sleeps wit his phone under his pillow etc. he left his laptop out while he left for a meeting at his job, I was snooping, & I went to the history, there was a bunch of dating sites in the history on top of the fact that he has my email saved to his computer & he regularly snoops on it. Anyway so before I can look any further the history deletes its self, apparently he has it set up on his phone that if anybody gets on is computer he gets a notification & he has the option to delete everything, which he ended up doing, he said it was a set up to see if I trusted him & he did it on purpose.. i dropped it.

Fast forward to yesterday, we was at his bros house & we all been drinking & I was posting snapchat stories, I mentioned to him that I didn’t like he never posted me on snap, so than he starts taking all these video of us & pics etc, and everything is cool. I look at his snap story today & there’s a padlock on the stories of us, I dig deeper to find out why & apparently he set a private story to add the pictures & it’ll look like it’s posted on his regular snap but I’m the only one that can see it..

I need advice ladies please. I can’t even begin the conversation to bring it up.