I am scheduled for a c-section one week from tomorrow. I really, really wanted to give birth naturally, no meds, but the baby is breech and nothing we’ve tried has turned her.

Getting her here safely is our priority obviously, but I’ve never had so much as a stitch so the idea of a spinal block and surgery scares the ever-living crap out of me. I’m a control freak Virgo, and I’m secretly panicking about the “what if’s”. On top of that, I was in awesome shape before getting pregnant and worked out throughout most of my pregnancy, but am concerned about recovery and how quickly I can get moving. I’ve gained 38 lbs. for reference.

Would love to hear some advice or tips from moms especially who wanted to go naturally but weren’t able. It’s late in the game to change perspectives but I know it’s possible!

Thank you!