Wig? Or no wig?

I need advice ladies. My man and I have been together just over a year and I told him I want to get a short pixie cut and get a wig. He freaked out over the idea and said “Don’t wear it around me.” Then he said I could wear it around him it’s just he would rather see my natural hair. I’m a very feminist person and so I’m kinda frustrated he reacted that way instead of supporting me.

Should I do it anyway? 🤔