Sleepless night and argument

Mackenzie

So lately my son has been clingy and just can’t do anything with out me and even sleeping it just doesn’t help him if I’m not in the room so he can touch my face . So my son been crying for fifteen minutes I’m letting him cry but I’m in the room every few minutes I try laying him back down and it just makes everything worse. Finally I got him to take his pacifier and touch my face through the cracks of the crib and then I rub his head waiting for him to fall asleep. It didn’t work so then my husband comes in he says get out ur not doing anything so leave I told him no I will just do what I always do and co sleep he said no get out of my site and u go to bed I said no but his tone got louder and I went to my room. My son screaming even more my husband takes him down stairs and I am crying now just like my son and my Husban said I should have done more. I know I should have done more about the screaming but I never know what to do now my husband told me don’t talk to him at all for a couple days and gave me my son now we are on the couch and I’m just feeling like I’m a horrible wife and mother. What do u do to help ur little one sleep. My son is 16 months