So me and this guy met online right before he left for his deployment. He’s gonna be gone for 9 months but we have had an instant connection. We talk all day and all night. Before he goes over seas they have a day where their family or significant others can come for a few days. He asked me to come. We have FaceTimed for hours and talked on the phone but we never got a chance to hang out in person because it was too late to plan something before he left. I know this is crazy fast but I really want to go and see him. His deployment isn’t over for 9 months so if I have a chance I want to utilize this chance and meet him to clarify my feelings for him. So basically should I go or no?