So my husband & I had a child a little over a year ago. I suffered from psychosis right after for 2 weeks. It took some time but after a few weeks we started having sex again but it was only 2 times in the whole year. Last time we tried he couldn’t get an erection.

Last night I sat down to talk to him about it. Also to talk about how we’er not even intimate with kissing or snuggling. He says it’s not me. He’s happy. He just over thinks things and doesn’t remember the last time he’s had an erection.-he was so upset.

I told him we’er going to need to go back to us snuggling and kissing because I need some kind of intimacy.

He gave me a big hug with a kiss & said “I know but it was to late at night to be talking about this”

What can I do to help him?

He’s not a lingerie guy either.

I’m still breastfeeding so may be some lingerie would be a good thing.