I been involved with this guy for a little over 2years now. Off and on. We’ll stop talking for long periods of time and then pop back up in each other lives. He’s nice, sweet and the perfect gentleman. We recently got involved deeply. Like the “L Word” is in mix lightly thought. We know we have feelings for each other’s but, we barely see each other as well. He is a great father but always has his children. I don’t get involved with children problems Bc I’m not a parent. But, he always has his children and I rarely see him. I’ve talked to him about it. He said somethings will change and nothing has happen. I feel like he’s somebody else since I haven’t even met the kids! I’m starting to not want to be involved with any man that has children now. Bc of things like this. How do I know you really with or children? Why haven’t I met them? Are you with somebody and just stringing me along?