In a rut

I need some advise. My husband and I are in a rut. All we do is work, go home, watch TV, and sleep. I can’t get him to do anything other than be on his phone, watch TV, and play games. He is always to tired for sex and I’m starting to feel really alone. I have tried to talk to him about how I feel, but he just starts trying to fight with me, and I don’t want that. I’ve tried “spicing things up” in the bed room, taking him out on dates, and other different things to change things up, but neither of us end up being happy by the end of the night. What do I do?