So I’m 14 and I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year and we wanted to try having sex and we have been for the part few months and it’s been great but he can’t make me climax the way I do when I do things solo I don’t know if I really want to straight talk about it with him because I have a feeling he will get embarrassed or detached

Edit: just to clarify I am aware of my age I didn’t ask this question for judgement.