Rushing the 1st child for the 2nd child?

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The title pretty much says it all! Do you sometimes feel or have felt that you rush your older child’s childhood so that you can be ready for the next one?? For example: I’ve read some mothers weaning co sleeping, bottle, potty training earlier than what they would have done if they were not expecting another child.