Since he has found out he has genital herpes, we hadn't had sex in almost a month. Finally he bought condoms and we had sex the other night but he wouldn't let me touch his dick with my hands because he says I'll catch his disease.

So neither of us are very educated about it currently and both doctors I spoke to told me that blood tests are inconclusive and unless I have a break out, they can't test me for it. I may or may not already have it then. But he and I never would have protected sex before now, so I say its pretty likely.

Anyway, do I have to stop sucking his dick or touching it? I'm really trying to figure out how to continue a normal sex life with him if he won't let me. It's hard to just get him in the mood when those two things have always been what I do when I'm ready for sex lol.