My husband and i have been married for 2.5 years and have an 11 month old son and im 13 weeks pregnant. Before our son we were the most amazing team, great friends, he was there when i needed and i was there for him!

Since my son was born (he was very excited about him) he has gotten more and more distant, closed off, doesnt talk to me, yells if i ask something simple of him, storms out when he gets annoyed about something or me, if something is bothering me he tells me it is stupid and to get over it and cant even bring himself to give me a hug. We have seen a couple of counsellors but he doesnt listen to what they ask and suggest. He is on meds for depression which has only started since our son was born. Blames me for everything, says i am lazy and expects me to do everything. We have split twice in this time, the first he was gone for two weeks and was staying with a girl who never existed before we started having issues and her partner, i managed really well, had so much more confidence and drive and felt like myself again, i then asked him to come back thinking that would be better for our family and that we could work through things. Well they only continued to get worse, i asked him to leave again recently and then we talked the next day and it honestly felt like he was listening and wanted to really make a go of it, but since a week after he came back it has just turned to crap again. He thinks because i chose to take time off work short term to look after our son, that i shouldnt need time to do things i enjoy, such as riding horses or going to the gym. I feel as though this is turning into emotional abuse and i know i can do this on my own but i am scared of how dirty he is going to get and the crap he will put me through with our son and financially it is scary as i will be stretched to the absolute limit as all our debt is in my name only so he will play games with that. Guess i am after peoples take and positive thoughts either way.