Is it wrong to get pregnant without partner fully on board? PLEASE READ DESCRIPTION

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We already have 2 children and my partner knows I want another, he however is undecided on the matter. He knows I am not on birth control and for a year we have been using natural family planning which has worked great.. now he obviously knows this is no way the best form of contraception and pregnancy is very high - he is happy with this and would be okay with pregnancy happening but just doesn't want to fully comit to having another, he's more of a "if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't" kinda person... 
So to my question.. would it be considered wrong if I were to "forget" to tell him my fertile days? He knows roughly on day 16 I ovulate so if he really wanted to avoid it he could.

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Just be a grown up and talk to the damn man.
Jesus.
Yes its wrong to "trick" him. Yes it's wrong to "forget to mention your fertile" like seriously.

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If you have to ask you already know the answer 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Call it “forget” but it still sounds like tricking him smhow.. i would better directly talk to him about it

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If he 100% didn’t want a baby he would use a condom, he knows you’re not on anything so🤷🏽‍♀️ Good luck!

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It’s actually illegal. It’s called reproductive coercion.

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That’s a tough one, I can see your side of thinking because it’s not like he would be unhappy if you were and he’s not bothered if you did fall pregnant. I just think it’s best to be honest and transparent with your other half. It’s only fair. Can you not have another sit down with him? Let him know how much it means to you? x

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I want three kids. My husband wants two. I fully intend on having three and already told him I’ll just initiate sex during my fertile days 😂 you’ll always regret not having the next baby but your husband will never regret it if have another. I say go for it

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If you both have the mindset of “if it happens it happens” that’s fine but to knowingly deceive him yes that’s wrong. If you have to come here and ask others for opinions,then it seems like you already know it’s the wrong thing to do. You guys are married maybe have a SERIOUS talk about getting pregnant again.

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That is how my husband and I conceived our second hahaha we were like well if it happens it happens if it doesn't then nothing. I didnt check my ovulation or anything like that. 1 month after I quit the birth control because it was making me sick, I got pregnant, and I was in shock, although he was not in shock and said I completely knew I got you pregnant this month hahaha now I'm 20 weeks hahaha so I would say it is not wrong. As of he doesnt want a baby he would protect himself more, or ask you to do it. So I'd say go for it.

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I am in the same position as you! My husband has the same attitude towards it, but if he really didn't want it he would wear a condom. And I don't see why not telling him would be a problem as long as he's not asking

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