I feel bad, any advice?

Question

I’m only 23 weeks pregnant but I am never in the mood to have sex with my husband. We don’t do ANYTHING for weeks at a time and I feel so guilty about it but I can’t even force myself most of the time because I’m so tired and I just feel so fat. Has anybody else been this way? I’m thinking maybe I should just suck it up some nights..

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Girl i soo understand..its hard for alot of us rn just soo extremely tired, swollen, sick,  in pain, n just not feeling sexy so the last thing on our minds is sex.. its been that way over here since the beginning on my pregnancy im 24wks today ..i made a deal with him i would at least once a week which is either sat or sunday his choice, he's been ok with that so far i think it gives him something to look forward to, after a long work week he gets a treat.. I just feel bad for him bc he sulks around pouting makes me laugh but I  feel for him..lol

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🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ same boat. I’m just not in the mood. I’m either tired. Sick. Exhausted. And he doesn’t understand the watermelon in my stomach lol

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It was like that for me in my first trimester. And my skin was less sensitive so it didn’t feel good for him to play with me like he normally does. So I told him if he wanted to mess around like that he would have to be serious and go down on me or use a vibrator. We’ve had sex once a week the whole pregnancy, and I’ve gotten off every time. Maybe you need to invest in some toys or something to help your body remember that you do like sex.

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I know it sounds bad to force yourself to please them but try to every once in awhile. My partner got emotional eventually and started feeling unloved. I’m currently 38 weeks and 2 days and it’s painful to have sex but I try to make him happy sometimes when I get the urge. But completely feel you

I feel bad, any advice?

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