Ladies I'm so lost right now! Can I get advice (not looking for any hate) my husband and I have been together 9 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. I had an appointment to get my tubes ties January 2nd 2019...anyways he threw a complete fit about it! So it didnt end up happening. Well I took a test yesterday and day before (8 test) and all are positive for pregancy well I told him this morning when he got home from work I was pregnant. .. He threw a complete fit and started treating me like garbage. Told me to "take a pill we don't need another baby" and acted if it was all my fault. Ladies I refuse to do this to my child that has no say on life! ( its not like we struggle financially or anything he has a great job and I'm a stay at home mom) I'm not sure what to do leave him or make him deal with his actions. .