I am currently pregnant with twins, but I just want to know would I be selfish not to give my kids their dad last name being that we aren’t married. I absolutely love him, but I won’t have the last name. My mom didn’t give us our dad last name, she was never married to them. Hell his mama didn’t give him his dad last name but for his little sister, she got her dad last name bc they eventually married.

I just don’t want to overreact and this be a blow up in my face because people think I’m being selfish.

Am I right or wrong?

UPDATE:

I had the conversation with him & he said, well I’m going to change that so we won’t have this conversation again. I said okayyyy 🧐