So obviously I’m done with him right. I broke up with him in November. I’ve been 82 days no contact and I still feel like shit: we were in a relationship for 8 years.

People tell me I need to move on like it’ll just happen over night ....? I know he’s a narcissist and an asshole. People tell me I need to forgive and get closure. I don’t agree with any of that .. because he’s manipulative as fuck and will make it seem like its all my fault for cheating.

There’s not a timeline for healing right????

Things that irk me the most.

— I had to find out from his fucking sister that this woman was pregnant and he never told me until after we broke up. He didn’t tell me himself. All he said was that he had sex with another woman. /

— his sister asked me “ okay what if he said I love you and I will change will you take him back???” BITCH???????? What world do you live IN!????