Venting/rant 😰

I knew this girl from high school but we never really became friends until after. She was the one I talk to about my miscarriage, relationship, life, and current pregnancy. She moved four hours away so we don’t really hang out anymore. Lately she’s been really attitude filled towards everything I post on snap and my baby shower. She will literally argue with me about things in regards to pregnancy. Such as how pregnancy is 40 weeks long, which technically is 10 months bc there’s four weeks in each month. And she argued with me forever saying “lmao women aren’t pregnant that long. You’re on something.” Like yeah, I’m pregnant and have a doctor I talk to about this stuff so.. :/ I also posted a little funny screenshot of girl names from google and said “lol google keeps giving me white girl names but I’m having a little brown sugar baby.” She responded with “how are you having a brown sugar baby? You’re not black.” I didn’t even try to argue with her or anything, all I said was “I’m not white lol” and she said “you’re a light skinned Mexican and so is Carlos”(my boyfriend) I just told her it’s not that deep and she said “ok.” Well then...she messaged me saying she’d be able to come to my baby shower bc she has Fridays and Saturday’s off. I told her when my baby shower is, May 19 Sunday at 2 p.m. bc my father, brothers and boyfriend(babies father), work on Saturday’s until 7 p.m and can’t get the days off. So I asked her “it’s in May, that’s enough time to put in a request at work, right?” She said “ok” like she’s mad at me. At this point, I’m just really annoyed with her and so close to uninviting her bc how she literally has nothing but negativity to say about my pregnancy and everything else. I totally understand if she’s upset bc she might not be able to make it, but everything else is just boggling my brain! Like to me, it’s much more important to have my family and boyfriend there instead of changing the entire day just for her. I’d love to have her there bc we’ve been friends for two years but gosh it’s just so frustrating. I don’t know if my feelings are even valid. 🤥😣