Three months ago my Hubby and I met with an FCI doctor, after not getting pregnant in 5 years. I just came from getting Pre-op labs (I’m having a Hysteroscopy next week) and I’ve realized...I’m so tired.

In the last 3 months I’ve had more tests, lab work, and ultrasounds than in my entire life...and taking birth control in preparation for the procedure...which is defeating. I hope this means we’re getting closer to our BFP.

I have one child from a previous marriage, we found out DH has low sperm/abnormal motility/morph/vitality...which led us to FCI. I haven’t/can’t talk to my family about what we’re going through and it’s tough when at every gathering the first question is “Are you pregnant?” I always say “I promise, when it happens, I will NOT keep it a secret”....I say it so much it would seems” that they wouldn’t ask me. They don’t ask my husband ANYTHING - and it never matters that I’m having a glass of wine, as they ask me. I often think “we’ll at least XX doesn’t ask me..” and literally last weekend, a friends husband asks me, in front of everyone....I’m just tired

Pls. dont be discouraged by my post, I’m venting - it also may be some hormonal side effect of the birth control...IDK.