Husband acting different after birth

I had my daughter 8 days ago and ive been super sensitive. Everything makes me cry. My husband has also been acting different towards me. He says im not doing anything right with our daughter. He gets upset because I'm pumping instead of directly breastfeeding, this morning we were bathing her and he was yelling at me that i wasn't doing it right. I don't say anything but it really hurts my feelings i cry when he leaves for work. Also when i try to hug him he pushes me away saying not to touch him. He makes it like he is playing around but i feel like he just doesn't love me anymore. His phone is full of porn and i feel so insecure because im weighing 204 right now . I'm trying so hard to do better for him but i can't. 😭😢