Needing Reassurance

Ladies this pregnancy has been way harder than my first. I have only lost weight because of the extreme nusea and heartburn. They have me on meds for that which makes my anxiety awful bc I hate to take meds on my own let alone while pregnant. On top of that they have me on 7 different vitamins bc I tested low in several important things like calcium. The last week my daughter (2 yrs old) has been super sick with this extreme head cold and I have been sleeping with her. Now yesterday I came down with it. It feels like my face is going to explode. The pamplet my doctor sent home says I can take tylenol and mucinex but the thought of taking more meds just has be beside myself. I know that is what they are for but I was raised in a very homeopathic family and nothing I try is working right now. I just worry all this is going to effect this sweet child that I have been trying so hard to conceive for the last year. Feeling so overwhelmed.