Valentine’s vent

My husband and I just got married in October. This would be our first valentines as a married couple.

He wants to spend it by going to his moms house after work.....

I was kinda looking forward to doing a little something intimate at home. Maybe cook us some dinner and hopefully fool around. I wasn’t expecting to go anywhere since it’ll be chaotic. Anyway, me trying to be a good and understanding wife agreed to meet at his moms after work without arguing.

I definitely know we’ll be there late and no “surprise” plans will be made. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mother in law and I get along with her very well. I tried to casually convince my husband to visit on Friday, but he was firm on visiting her for Valentine’s.

Not sure if I’m overreacting or being a sensitive brat. I just really miss the way things used to be between us. We don’t have any children and have been together for 8 years. He’s not all over me anymore and hasn’t really been up to much of anything for a few years now. I’m not sure what to do to get his attention.

He’s an amazing, sweet and caring husband. Definitely not one of those douchey guys. I just feel we’re not as intimate anymore. I’ve tried the lingerie and looking pretty, and got nowhere. When I try to flirt or make a move, I get turned down. Kinda makes a girl feel shitty and ugly, you know?

I’m not sure what to do anymore. I don’t want to give up causing things to end. We’ve talked about this problem before, but nothing gets solved.

....ugh, sorry.... just really need to vent a little 😞