Waxing lady judging me

I’ve had my underarms waxed before, at 2 different beauty shops, and I felt totally judged both times. My underarm hair is quite thick and and grows fast as well. The girls who did my waxing we’re both Asian and BOTH said “there’s a lot” when I showed them my underarms. Besides plucking some myself to make it look like less hair, can you suggest anything else to make me not get judged by these women?

There aren’t a lot of places to go for waxing in my area so I’m at a bit of a loss. Suggestions please?