I’ve seen a million online videos of a woman trying to tell their man that they are pregnant in these cute and adorable surprising ways; catching every moment on their phones. And then I’ve seen videos of couples waiting together and then looking at a pregnancy test together. Of course all the videos are happy and positive results. And I love watching them! I am a sucker for those videos!!

Here is my dilemma...

this is the first month we have been trying, I should get my P on Monday. (We didn’t do our best this month unfortunately due to bronchitis and a cold) but there is a chance. A part of me wants to take the test with him right there for support, happy or sad. and then the other part wants to take it alone so I can have those happy or sad emotions to myself for a little while. A part of me wants to share it with him and experience it together but there is also a part of me that wants to do it by myself and then tell him later.

Does anyone regret or love or wish they had done something different when it came to involving their significant other in the pregnancy test?