Am I in the wrong?

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I’m 19 he’s 21 and this is our first ever Valentine’s Day together, my bf has been addicted to this apex game the last few days so I pre asked him to get it out of his system so I didn’t have to worry about him wanting to leave me over his game, anyways this guy played his game ALL of Wednesday so we’re hanging out in a Parking lot and he started texting his boy (ignored me when I was asking him something well he was texting this guy) then proceed to get mad that I was mad then went got some pizza and talked about how he was SOO excited to play his game when he got home and at the point we weren’t even together for 3 hours.
My question is am I wrong? He’s saying he was to nice of a guy to not cancel plans with this guy because he can’t say no to him but not to nice of a guy to make our first Valentine’s Day chill and about just us
I’m so conflicted and he’s trying to argue with me that I’m wrong for being sad that I didn’t have all his attention for the barley 3 hours I was with him🥺

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Wow I’d expect that from a teenage boy, but not a 21 year old. Cut your losses. This boy didn’t deserve you.

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Lol my nd is also addicted to Apex and GTA and he's 25. But he has to at least acknowledge you on that day. Who knows it might have been my bf he been playing with sense mine spends hours on it too. Lol

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My husband has been obsessed with APEX too, played it every day since it came out. But he knew that Valentines Day was our day, and he planned around that. Your bf sounds really inconsiderate.

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I always tell my bf to not talk to me with headphones on because that’s rude. It’s like you’re not going to be paying attention to both so pick one.

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You need to tell him what you expect out of your relationship and from him. and ask him what he expects from you.

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you shouldn’t need to worry about that in a relationship in the first place. you’re in the right with ur feelings. he’s being rly childish for an adult for prioritizing a game over u lol. like video games r fun but it’s not healthy if he’s letting it affect his relationship with u. if you’re into games at all u can always try to playing with him but besides that he needs to stop being mad at u being mad

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He's not worth the time and effort

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My boyfriend is addicted to this game as well.

Am I in the wrong?

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