Soo tell me about how you chose when to announce to who.

We had a chemical in November so I was hesitant to tell anyone but my BFP yesterday was SO blatant and I had dinner with my best friend and blabbed! Yesterday was my Dad's birthday (he passed away 18 months ago) and she asked if I received any signs from my Dad On his birthday. I couldn't hide it!!!

But now I feel like I want to be very deliberate in who we tell and when. What do you all think??