Hi so this isn’t a huge deal but i feel a little bad. On every holiday i always go all out for my boyfriend. He rather get stuff he needs so i always try to mix it. For his birthday i got him a shirt, sweats, socks, reasons why i love you jar, a frame with a picture of us, poster of his fav show and a card. On Valentines Day i got him a cologne , some candy and a card. I always try to make it from the heart and add cute stuff to everything. For Valentine’s Day he got me a present but wanted to give it to me straight from a plastic bag and he had told me that he couldnt wrap it throught text because he doesnt know how to wrap. I felt bad. Because theres gift bags for a reason. Esspecially because my mom was saying how when you give a gift it should always look like if someone put alot of effort into it. And keep in mind im not materialistic. Ive told him plenty of times that i dont need anything material wise. Diy or creative stuff from heart. I enjoy just as muchh. Anyhow i was throwing hints that i wish he put more effort and added his little touches. Like maybe wrapping it or adding a card. But he wasnt get the memo until the morning before our date :/. Now my birthday is in 6days and he keeps asking me what i want. And he hasnt when out to shop or done anything like that. (Even a letter or something from the heart would be nice to recieve considering how much effort i put for his birthday) I feel a bit sad because he is always doing things last minute for me or not putting much effort. When he claims it because he has to much work but there are mornings where he will just play video games. So i know he has time. Its also kind of embarrassing because i put so much into his gifts.