I think my marriage is over...

For the past year or so my husband and I have been living a part i had him move out cause i was tired of feeling like he only wanted something to do with me when it was convenient to him well over this time not living together i think I've been growing away from him. Like i don't feel like trying to get ahold of him to spend time together which he still really doesn't either. When we are intimate afterwards i always feeling like i did something wrong and i have to force myself to want to do anything with him anymore. I hate that i feel this way after being together so long and all we've been through i just can't bring myself to want to spend time with him anymore. i don't want to break up our family but I'm not happy anymore. And i don't want to keep him around knowing the way i feel cause i think he deserves to be happy too. Am i wrong for wanting to end my marriage?

Yes we have tried counseling and have voiced both of our feelings. I thought for the longest time we weren't that different he does but now I'm seeing we are. We both want two different type of relationships