The super mom double standard 😬

I fortunately started wfh almost full-time this past year. I’m a financial software consultant for a small firm and they save on costs by having us either home or at clients. Obviously I won’t be traveling much when I first head back to work, but “DH” doesn’t understand why I keep asking him to visit local daycares with me...because I’m “home all day anyway”.

I’m a project manager/project lead/business analyst for million dollar projects. He knows this bc we met at work a million years ago and still have similar jobs (but he’s a white male and thus paid more than double my salary).

On the occasion he works from home now I’m supposed to ensure the entire house is silent, and the dogs don’t interrupt any of his calls, which he never bothers to tell me about in advance anyway. But I should be able to care for a newborn while putting in my 40 hour+ work weeks?? Seriously???