I’m trying soooo hard not to resent pregnant people right now. My husband and I lost our last pregnancy at 6 weeks a little over a month ago. Devastated me, it was our third miscarriage but this was the first time I’d made it to 6 weeks.

Now, I would be 12 weeks if I was still pregnant. Anddddd my sister-in-law announces she’s 12 weeks pregnant. Due the same exact day I was.

Seriously, what kind of cruel irony is this?! Now I will have a real life reminder of exactly how big my belly would be, how far along I would be, when I would be going into labor, how old my child would be getting.

Don’t get me wrong I love my sister and brother in law and I’m happy for them.

But just... my heart is in the pit of my stomach.

Any tips on how to not harbor hatred for them? I am trying so hard. 😔😔😔