So mil has been a complete b to me since my family has been struggling. She is plastic when it comes to me only. She tells my husband (knowing we have housing issues) to take me two boys and come to live with her. Of course he hasn’t but she has been advocating this for a while. Well things are smoothing out and I’m also pregnant. She only is nice to me and sticks to me when she knows their is a baby coming. She said I’m not welcome in her house when we were struggling. So I was going to say she isn’t welcome around me or baby at the hospital either... labor team is supposed to be folks who support you and care about your well being. She doesn’t. I’m not saying she cannot see the baby. Just not coming to the hospital and she has to wait til I go home and I’m ready to deal 🤷🏽‍♀️ am I being tough or harsh?